A hot and juicy hamburger is staring at you. Or it’s the time of day you usually succumb to the office candy dish. Or the time of the month when French Fries are a salty solace. How can you resist?!
Research tells us focusing on the finish line – on the positive payoffs of your healthy choices – will help you evade the temptations. Try to . . .
Pause. That’s the first step. Before you respond to those crazy cravings for salt or sugar, stop! The key to Vibrant Living and healthy, intentional choices is taking a moment before you allow the hefty burger or the cheesecake to attach themselves to your thighs – or your arteries.
Think. Just pause and ponder, “How will I look like when I have dropped a dress size? How will my jeans fit? How will it feel to slide easily into my clothes?” According to study author Sonja Yokum,Ph.D., you’ll better stave off overeating with positive thoughts than with negative ones. So don’t shame yourself away, dream yourself away from the burger, the candy and the fries. Picture yourself on a beach, comfortable in a bathing suit, with energy to walk end to end — or to join in a game of volleyball!
Act.That’s the last step in the Vibrant Living mantra: Pause. Think. Act. With visions of a new and healthier you in mind, make different choices. Take 12 gulps of water. Remove yourself, go for a walk or call a supportive friend.
As you know, I’m big on making goals – on keeping a bucket list of dreams you can’t wait to fulfill. The roadmap you make for your life helps you stay away from the dark side – from the fast food drive-through and from the late night binges.
Keep the goal of abundant energy alive and dancing in your mind. Use your dreams and visions of a new and vibrant life to stop cravings in their tracks!
Prayer changes us, as much as it changes the world. It centers us, reminds us of what we have to be grateful for, and gets us outside of ourselves — to our true calling. In the face of enormous odds and obstacles, prayer can bring us to a new place — a place of hope, a place of peace.
Be with me in prayer today — so that we can turn our shields into plowshares. Feed the world a dose of hope and love. Go out and love one another . . . right now.
How can you cheer yourself on to vibrant health and weight loss?
New research suggests you’re better off with little prizes, every two pounds, every week of healthy dinners made, etc. Create excitement and interest that propels you to more action – rather than relying on big payoffs or the same rewards, over and over.
Break down intimidating tasks – like losing the baby weight you gained, oh, 10 years ago – into small, reward-worthy steps, including:
Three pounds down? That calls for 3D Movie Tickets. Five pounds? A manicure for sure.
Chalk up 100 miles of walking? Treat your toes to a massage or new shoes.
After a week of avoiding processed foods and eating REAL, brighten your dinner table with fresh-cut blooms.
10 hours of volunteer time this month? It’s time to invite a friend to lunch and toast the contribution you’ve made to your community.
Many weight loss programs fail because they rely on sustained deprivation. With the balanced approach of Vibrant Living, you’re much less likely to feel deprived. Add in the excitement you can create with frequent little perks and prizes and you can feel indulged instead! You’ll be surprised what a difference a little treat can make — a beautiful candle, an emollient hand cream, or a few peonies on your nightstand. You’ve earned them!
Of course, looking good and feeling energetic is its own reward. But mustering motivation for a lifetime of vibrant living will come more easily — if you have bonuses to claim every step of the way.
Walk into the kitchen and fill your water bottle. My clients see their biggest results from proper hydration. If you do nothing else, I tell them, if you are too busy or fatigued to workout or eat real, then drink 90 to 120 ounces of water today. Let me repeat, if you do nothing else, drink your water. Nearly 99 percent of Vibrant Living members experience dramatic improvements in energy and immediate relief from headaches and fatigue from the water alone.
Take the baby steps today. It’s a back-to-basics approach and the biggest pay-off is the surge in energy. You can become a force of nature, with a zest for life and health that will propel you to new and happier heights.
The last thing on your mind these days, dashing from work to the kids’ swim team practices, is dinner. But if you stock up on these 10 items, rest assured that your head won’t explode the next time a loved one asks, “What’s for dinner?”
Being a cover girl on a magazine was not on my bucket list. But I believe all of us are called to a vibrant life on this planet. So it’s an honor for my kids and I to be featured on the cover and inside the April/May Faith and Fitness Magazine, sharing the ways we choose to honor the bodies God has given us, and to pursue a life of purpose helping others.
Every day, YOU have choices, too. Choose to…
Cultivate a more faithful observance of your body as a vessel; fill it with water and real food so you overflow with energy for good works.
Go outdoors! Get active. God’s bountiful, beautiful earth is a constant reminder of how much we are loved and cared for. Relish those gifts as you move your body.
Get grateful. Say grace at every meal. Respond to God’s gifts with vibrant living: healthy hydration, eating, movement and volunteering.
There’s no sweeter gift than the gift of vibrant health. Cheer on your mom and all the women in your life as they make daily healthy choices! Get on the path of health with them in 10 easy ways:
Walk with her. What do we love more than your company? Nothing! Take a stroll after dinner or join her on a morning walking workout—add in some squats or jumping jacks to get your heart rate up!
Do weekend cutting and chopping. Set mom and your family up for healthy meals all week long by pitching in with produce prep work on Sunday. Sauté chicken, wash lettuce, and put individual portions of healthy snacks in baggies.
Get out of your comfort zone – with her. Our bodies and brains need new challenges to stay zesty and vibrant. Sign yourselves up for dance lessons or a painting class – something she’s always wanted to try.
Give fresh greens instead of flowers. Sign mom up for a weekly or monthly share of community supported agriculture (CSA) and offer her recipes to use up all the seasonal greens, fruits and vegetables.
Say a prayer with her. Moms need other family members to be the spiritual leaders sometimes. Volunteer to say the blessing. Hold her hand!
Get matching water bottles. Commit to each other to make water the beverage of choice. Fill yourselves with clean, clear water every day.
Read to and with each other. Mom loved reading to you. Take one of your childhood favorites to a nearby school and offer to read to the children. Record the experience for mom or go do it together!
Go device-free when you’re with her. What mom and girlfriends want, what her soul craves, is your attention and presence.
Volunteer with her. Sign up to walk or work a 5k together. Or cook healthy food and deliver it to a homeless shelter. Your hearts will soar, living for others and doing it in tandem.
Take her out . . . to a farmers’ market. It’s a lot cheaper than a restaurant brunch, but the buffet of fresh fruits and vegetables is right there, waiting for you. Fill her fridge with God’s colorful bounty.
What’s Families Living United Healthy Food Week? It’s a chance for us to serve others together, insuring that our neighbors in Central Maryland – and in your hometown (Read on!) – have healthy food to eat. Summer is particularly rough on families since kids don’t get subsidized meals at school. Food pantries also run low as this is a less popular time for donations. Watch me share on Comcast News why the need is so great.
In a little over two years in central Maryland, we have collected and distributed more than 7.4 MILLION pounds of healthy food (Learn how to get involved THIS week.) Help me – United Way Healthy Food Ambassador here in Central Maryland – and our partners Coldwell Banker, Wegmans, and Molly Shattuck Vibrant Living, bring good quality food to those who desperately need it.
You can launch a Healthy Food Drive in YOUR hometown – and here’s how:
Low-income families often go without healthy food since grocery stores are not within walking distance and food pantries and soup kitchens get donations of “leftover” food that is not always nutrient rich. A diet high in calories but low in nutrients can lead to diseases like diabetes, heart disease and cancer as well as learning and behavioral problems in children.
It’s Healthy Food Week, May 2 – 10.
Go out and plant seeds of mercy in your neighborhood and, at the same time, reap unparalleled joy in your own life — by serving others. Keep us posted on your progress, posting pictures of the donations you collect on Instagram, Facebook or via email at email@example.com.
Water covers about 70 percent of the earth’s surface. And it makes up 60 percent of our bodies. Water works miracles in our overall body function; it transports vitamins and glucose, regulates temperature, flushes toxins, revs the metabolism, revitalizes skin and sharpens your brain power. This Earth Day, pay homage to our wondrous planet with the healing power of personal hydration:
Drop 14 pounds a year — simply by drinking water every day before meals for a year.
I recommend 12 to 16 oz. at the start of each meal.
Get immediate results! Vibrant Living participants notice BIG gains in energy within two or three days of being fully hydrated.
Feel younger and quickly — with water!
Get wacky about water like I am. Never leave home without your water bottle! Take it to meetings, to restaurants, to church and to the base of the Grand Canyon and back up again (like I did when I took this photo a couple weeks ago!). Pause to refill and nurture the life force within!
Each of us has our own sweet spot of hydration. 90 oz. or more will propel your mind and body to vibrant energy. (Learn why in my book.)
Like all of creation, we are designed to convey goodness, strength and compassion. So fill your vessel each day. Go live vibrantly and in sync with God’s green earth.